Hip ! Hip ! Hooray !

I was taught even as a little girl that happiness means being part of a couple. Just recently I have realized that finding peace and happiness in my life is much simpler and easier alone.

I have had 2 serious relationships other than with my Ex-husband. Both times I really thought I had found Mr. Right. They were both quite a bit older than me, but that didn't bother me. I had some good times with each of them, but for one reason or another things did not work out.

I am alone now and free to do what I want. I don't have to pretend to like something just to make a guy happy. My time is my own and I can do whatever I want, even if it's absolutely nothing. I don't even have to wear makeup or shave my legs if I don't want to. No football games on the TV either because I have control of the remote. My sexual needs can be met with my friend the Hitachi. Who by the way , doesn't lie, cheat, fart, snore or leave the toilet seat up.

Such a simple solution to all the pressure society puts on us to get paired up. I Can't help wondering why it didn't occur to me sooner. It sure would have saved me some headaches.
I don't claim that this is the right solution for everyone. My gut instinct is that it is just what I have been looking for. Here's to all of us who chose to be alone. Hip ! Hip ! Hooray !

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